It has been only a few days and we are already individuals again - back in our lives and busy schedules.
I want to take a moment to reminisce. The trip and each person is still so fresh in my mind. I still check often to see if there is a text or message from one of you on my new green iPhone.
So here is the question: When did this array of very unique individuals actually become a ‘group’?
And I know the answer.
A group we became at the North Beach Pizza House when we all raised our hands in agreement to vote – ‘there should be no homework.’ Up until then we were simply Whitworth students fulfilling a requirement with one older fluffy professor. We went to pizza individuals: Caty the experienced couch and Jan term traveler, Kathy the lion tamer, Brittney the international correspondent, Andy the children’s new best friend, Siri the lover of whimsy and fashion, Alexa the personal cheering squad, Travis the fitness smile, David the tech guy and safe keeper, Cory the school emissary, Elizabeth the running explorer, Sarah the writer and tutor, Liz the new pied piper, and Danielle the emotional glue and mother Theresa …….
We walked back into the Kenmore that evening a ‘group.’
I knew the group had bonded – ‘one for all and all for one’ - when our real leader Caty lost her lanyard key, ID and Muni Pass. Within a moment of awareness the group energy surfaced mobilized, Caty flew out the window of the bus, Liz was hot on her texting trail, Cory was designated the personal escort patrol and we all manned our stations for orders and support – We were definitely now a group and we would function accordingly the next 20 days. The force was with us and even Kathy, wayward wandering that night, returned from Africa to be sucked into the whirlpool of friendship and group behavior.
Our memories from then on included each other, our laughter at dinner traveled seamlessly through two tables, the sun set on all of us, our bicycle trip bonded even those fain of heart and whining – we played in the Science center, threw the Frisbee on the beach and sat on stolen bed covers the park. We marched for freedom and we sang for fun. We watched movies in the theater and ate Chinese food as a family. We rode the bus and danced with the kids. No one was left out and no went home early. Now, those activities are definitely signs of a group. We even ended our stay wearing party hats and were all thrilled “It was a girl!”
Eat your heart out ‘The Bachelor’ cast you have never become such a group.
We went to school together, interviewed together, wrote our data analysis together, ate together and some of us even danced and drank together in and out of the night. We sent a total of 56,742.5 texts and 767 e-mails to ourselves, each other and all over the world to share our fun and accomplishments.
We ended with no one excluded, everyone valued and all being known. Our secrets and talents exposed.
Caty: Most likely to always have a map at the ready (and always, kind of, maybe, hopefully, sort of know where we got off the bus... or at least somewhere close).
Kathy: Most likely to stand and watch silently as our professor gets off the bus and the bus pulls away, with all of us on it.
Danielle: Most likely to send other people messages intended for her husband.
Brittney: Mostly likely to fall in love with and marry a foreigner.
Siri: Most likely to win everyone's hearts on the dance floor.
Alexa: Most likely to be the oldest woman ever on the top of a cheer pyramid.
Sarah: Most likely to fall in love with Tim Tebow.
Cory: Most likely to make all the girls jealous by getting placed with a really cute teacher.
Elizabeth: Mostly likely to change her outfit 4 times before leaving the room.
Liz: Most likely to have no place else in the world she'd rather be than right here, right now.
Travis: Most likely to photobomb a family photo.
David: Most likely to own a Christian Bobblehead store.
Andy: Most likely to own a Popeye's chain.
Margo: Most likely to have matching rain apparel.
So when did we cease to be a group?
And I know the answer to that question also.
As each shuttle pulled away from the Kenmore - each of us traveled back to our own life and loves – we broke away from our circle of learning and friendship to who we used to be and would become. We were older, wiser, and funnier. We were back to finding ourselves again – we were no longer the fearless San Francisco group. We are now going our separate ways and learning our individual truths. We are embracing new people and new experiences on a new quest to be who we were meant to be.
Thank you for coming, thank you for staying and thank you for going home. It was a great play and we all played our parts well. The drama was sweet – the highs and lows meaningful and the Kenmore, Rosa Parks and Everett a great temporary on location stage. If you left your heart in San Francisco, you can pick it up later. You are now each a true resident of a great city and you understand both its perils and gifts.
We are all the better for it - we survived with grace and love of Jan term 2012.
